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Run The Pre-Marriage Course

Are you passionate about seeing marriages and family life strengthened in your community? In running the Pre-Marriage Course for couples in your area, you can facilitate a space where couples can build a solid foundation for their future together.

3 simple steps

How to run The Pre-Marriage Course

Plan it

This is as easy as speaking to your church or organisation about where and when your course could be hosted, then simply sign up online using Course Builderto run The Pre-Marriage Course in person or remotely.

Prepare for it

Enjoy the user-friendly training resources that you can find at Course Builder and familiarize yourself with the videos and materials from the Couples Course to help you feel completely confident in delivering the course

Invite guests

Invite couples to attend and prepare each session as a special “date night”. This doesn’t have to cost the world... it just needs a little thought. Think about using candles and romantic lighting!

What is Course Builder?

In order to run a course, you will simply create an account on Course Builder. You will then have access to all materials, training and resources related to running your course, including the option to download the latest series.

Find out more

To experience the impact of The Pre-Marriage Course, you can view Session 1 below. To access all episodes, please register here.

Who’s it for?

Running The Pre-Marriage Course is perfect for you if:

Frequently asked questions

Yes, in some countries, The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course have been translated into other languages. Please click HERE y ve a la sección "Buscar un curso" para ver qué cursos están disponibles en su región.

On Course Builder you will find a document with links to every episode. We recommend emailing the episode link with the password to the couple. 

Running sections of the course means guests don’t get the full experience or the full benefit. The course is written in a way that the different sections build upon each other and don’t work as effectively when done independently. We would recommend you run the courses in full rather than just use sections.

Due to General Data Protection Regulations (GDPR), we are only able to make Couple Surveys available for 60 days following the last session of the Pre-Marriage Course. Unfortunately, we won’t be able to extend this, so Pre-Marriage Course leaders and admins need to take this into consideration when organising the Support Couple meetings. Support Couples should also be reminded of this expiration. See the FAQ 'What is a Support Couple?'

If The Pre-Marriage Course is using the Couple Survey, the course organiser or coordinator will email the Couple Survey to guests to complete before the course begins. Each partner should fill the Couple Survey out separately without consulting each other and then, after the course, they will have a scheduled appointment with a Support Couple who will go through the Couple Survey report with them both.

You will be able to access the Couple Survey once you have created your account and registered your course on Course Biulder. On the Course Builder, you will find training videos, guides and sample Couple Survey reports that equip Support Couples to interpret the Couple Survey report. The training videos and other guidance material can also be found on Course Builder. There is no Couple Survey for The Marriage Course; it is only to accompany The Pre-Marriage Course. 

The Couple Survey is an optional series of questions to be completed by guests on The Pre-Marriage Course before the course begins. The purpose of the Couple Survey is to:

  • Affirm areas of strength
  • Highlight those issues the couple needs todiscuss
  • Help them make sure they are ready for marriage
  • Give a realistic view of what makes a marriage work

Couples do not receive the results of their Couple Survey and the link to the Couple Surveys expire 60 days after the last Pre-Marriage Course session. Instead following the course they have a discussion with a designated Support Couple. The Couple Survey report guides the conversation, affirming areas of strength in the couple’s relationship and highlighting issues for discussion.

Each couple on The Pre-Marriage Course is allocated a Support Couple. The requirements for Support Couples are simply that they

- Are married
- Have completed The Marriage Course
- Are happy to host a couple from The Pre-Marriage Course (usually in their home, over an evening)
- Have been approved by someone with pastoral oversight (see the sample form that can be downloaded from the Course Builder for this signed approval).
During the evening the Support Couple guides the guests in conversation using the findings of the Couple Survey, which the guests would have completed before the start of the course. The role of the Support Couple is to affirm areas of strength and highlight issues the couple needs to discuss. The Couple Survey report is very easy to use, with suggested follow-up questions for the Support Couple to ask the guest couple to facilitate the discussion. Once you register your course, you’ll be able to access dedicated training videos for Support Couples which fully explain their role. Head to Course Builder - see top menu courses to get started. There is no Couple Survey or Support Couple role for The Marriage Course. It is designed only to accompany The Pre-Marriage Course.

The Marriage Course was created by Alpha International, which also runs Alpha courses around the world. Alpha is a multi-week series of sessions exploring the Christian faith. Each week, the session looks at a different question around faith and is designed to create conversation. Alpha is run all around the globe and everyone is welcome. It runs online, in cafés, churches, universities, homes—you name it! No two Alphas look the same, but they generally have three key things in common: hospitality, a talk and good conversation HERE for more information.

The website requires a start and finish date in order for a course to be registered on Course Builder. Please note that following registration on Course Builder your course dates will show on our Find a Course page. It will remain there until approximately two weeks after your course starts.

The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course each have their own version of the Guest Journal. Each guest on a course requires their own Guest Journal (that’s two per couple) and can be found through the country links on the Resources page.

The Guest Journal is a small handbook that corresponds with the topics of each session, guiding couples’ conversations, prompting discussions, and allowing plenty of space for guests to make their own notes. The Guest Journal is created as an additional tool used to help the guest couples reflect on their relationship and the meaning of marriage, as well as to facilitate conversations between them. The Guest Journal is for each guest to keep once the course has finished.

Both The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course have a similar structure, with the environment of a date night and an emphasis on private discussions for each couple. The key difference is that The Pre-Marriage Course is for engaged couples and those considering marriage, whereas we recommend The Marriage Course for couples who have been married for at least two years. The Pre-Marriage Course can also include a Couple Survey which each guest completes in advance of the course. Following the course they look at the results of their survey over a meal with a designated married "Support Couple".

Developed in 1996, The Marriage Course has been run in over 117 countries for over 1.5 million couples. It is a not-for-profit offering from Alpha International, and is run globally by many organisations.

Alpha International is a charity registered in England & Wales (no. 1086179) and in Scotland (no. SC042906) and a private company limited by guarantee and registered in England & Wales (no. 4157379). The registered office is at HTB Brompton Road SW7 1JA.

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